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Problems That Include Dating A Mexican..
hi there guys welcome back to our Funnel what was that? 14 days back we crafted a video clip in which Joss was speaking about the difficulties that come with dating a German with dating him, particularly nicely.. nicely right now we’re going to… have you been alright? I have got allergic reactions dude! these days we’re gonna transform it about and I’m about to inform you every one of the difficulties that are included with dating a Mexican more accurately, this specific a single here I’m so scared of this movie! I’m going to get offended in a big way nevertheless i know you like I and me know you secretly love all of the things about me you feel so? I’m sure not all of them… how dare you dude due to the fact like I said last time: Before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys, i have a lot to say…. I like Mexicans. I really like that one especially Mexico is definitely a varied country and are therefore individuals.. yes that’s really real we may be found in each and every form, personality, shape and color therefore we don’t desire to generalize anything.. we’re not declaring which every Mexican does those ideas! These things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used naughty phrases in spanish to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn Spanish and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true, when we say “problems”! be ready to meet up with all around 100 or 200 people in one day that happen to be portion of the family members that happen to be only part of the loved ones! If it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico, not even friends I don’t know: the meal you will get body weight which is caused by 2 things: first, of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! and also added to that it’s challenging to refuse simply because Mexican food is very delicious Oh yeah my lord I skip it a lot… please give me Enchiladas Potosinas make sure you! in my opinion also remember to one more reason why you’re gonna get fat because of the foods are because it’s really cheap in comparison with Germany true! In the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes., lets go to the next point now. I’m actually also past due I’m like Mexican.. you’re fifty percent Mexican that’s actually a stereotype that we hate I loathe whenever people let me know: you’re going to be past due since you’re Mexican but I’m delayed at all times! even when I consider my finest… that’s anything I’ve battled with eternally the next position which i were required to get accustomed to a great deal: you can find scared whilst driving a vehicle I don’t wish to push in Mexico and in many cases once your lover, in this case she, is traveling Mexico you, feel as if: exactly where are the policies? exactly where are the outlines on the ground that inform you through which lane you need to go and the pockets guy oh yeah my the lord there is one particular street I need to take each and every time I head to my house it offers a lot of openings.. I acquired them my heart I’m like… when you get to a intersection there is not really a tip which says who can go initially Sure! – additionally, there are no symptoms you generally let me know, the one inside the most significant road may go first but for whatever reason all the Mexicans know where you can drive it’s good sense bro! it had been the most awful in Mexico Area there is one particular extremely occupied road so we had been coming from a compact neighborhood and all of the folks from the tiny road were just proceeding like this all around all of those other vehicles in Mexico City I discovered living pass through my mind for true like several instances along with the drivers of the ubers were like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the elements these days? speaking to us in the long run is really fairly remarkable simply because Mexicans definitely learn how to push in crazy conditions! ok the subsequent position is really a funny one particular but additionally a sad a single.. at times for squares of toilet papers will be all that you’ll get exactly where have you expertise that? very seriously! we were inside a marketplace in Mexico Town and that i wanted to see the bathroom which man right in front practically provided several squares of bathroom pieces of paper here, do your personal style! and I was like: If that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough, i don’t know! – No and I shared with him: may i have a different one? I didn’t know this became a problem for yourself I am talking about in Germany you can find lavatory paper appropriate next to the toilet.. yeah in Mexico as well! yeah ok that doesn’t take place usually.. We have to express this happened like twice in my opinion… haha he’s overreacting! When I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that before – in the toilet she would ask you: primary or # 2? If you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- ., and if you say one she gives you one square and. I don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”, but no! this is only the way they are they’re similar to this… so don’t buy your hopes up… -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous, they’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine! and I’m not allowing him venture out! ” which is a tiny bit excessive folks but… do i need to remind you of yesterday? when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at you and me literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore, which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like… -ok you will be like.. so when I started dating you I had been like “incredible a new w0rld! ” We have a hypothesis however and I know this is going to make me sound crazy but pick up me out I seem like a great deal of this thinking is formed by telenovelas. Don’t appear for me personally! perhaps you have seen a Mexican telenovela? -no -the ladies are so remarkable and they’re so envious and they’re so like “he’s mine she’s in no way about to acquire him clear of me! ” how come this girl staring at you? this mindless $·%·” footnote: guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly, it has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense… I have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner if you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes! see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing is that in Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this? ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no, I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of resentment and disappointment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect sleepovers and that’s a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend? in Germany men can remain at the girlfriend’s home or women can say the boyfriend’s home even though they’re below 18, probably 16 they could stay in the friends of boyfriend’s home sinners! as well as in Mexico they think the most awful of people, they are doing a bit of very poor stuff that they cannot do any place else one of the more repeated communications I have from couples is young girls that happen to be anxiously inquiring me how do you make Janik realize that he cannot stay? or how to make my moms and dads comprehend? it’s so difficult. -it’s difficult for us also -of course either side because initially you couldn’t comprehend it you were like “I don’t obtain it” I used to be 22 or 23 years when we started dating and that i was like “I’m so aged and I are unable to be in the identical area as her” and my sibling is even old and her sweetheart couldn’t keep there I’m a grownup. If you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy, -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but! Once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small. once. If it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down below and if you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss, – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know!